Nel's Marriage to Jude Greene will not last long because Jude did not marry for love he married to feel like a man. Marrying someone to feel like a man is the worst thin you can do to a woman because she believe that you love her when you do not. That is wrong on so many levels. Jude should be ashamed of himself because that does not make him a man it makes him less of a man. Jude must be a looker from the way Morrison describes how many woman would watch him sing and Jude chose Nel out of them all. Helene should have seen that Jude did not love Nel by how quick he wanted to marry. I think personally a man should be able to take care of himself because he is grown and no one will take care of him forever. If i chose my Husband he has to be self sufficient. Jude is a sad essence of a man for the reason why he married Nel. I think Helene was so hell bent on the wedding that she did not see the faults. Nel submission clouds her judgement, which is her mother fault. I am a strong women and I believe in having a strong man beside me. Almost my equal but not quite because he is the man in the relationship. But I will not be submissive because I have a brain and a mouth, so i can think for myself. I am sad that Nel and Sula relationship is drifting because it always great to have that one good friend. You can be your self and talk about anything with them. One part in the chapter clarifies Sula difference form Nel. Morrison states that Sula has aggression for a leadership role.
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